Comments on: Independence Day song for targets of narcissists

By: Lori Hoeck

Lori Hoeck — Fri, 06 Aug 2010 19:53:02 +0000

Hi Hilary,
Good advice and a good line: “I don’t take it on board”! Thanks.

Hi Patricia,
Thank you for the supportive and kind words.

Hi Vered,
Yes, that’s line sums up a lot, doesn’t it?

Hi Cathy,
Thank you for stopping by and then sharing the song. Hope your facebookies enjoy it as much as you and me.

By: Cathy Crawford

Cathy Crawford — Thu, 05 Aug 2010 00:17:26 +0000

AWESOME SONG!!!! Shared it with all my facebookies !!!

By: vered | blogger for hire

vered | blogger for hire — Sat, 10 Jul 2010 02:11:42 +0000

“You sound so innocent, all full of good intent”

Isn’t that typical of a narcissist. It’s a great song.

By: Patricia

Patricia — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 23:06:57 +0000

Nice post and reinforcement of the message…Thank you for the link and all the great and valuable information you share with all of us…Good job

By: Hilary

Hilary — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 08:41:19 +0000

Hi Lori .. people do seem to think they know best for us .. and don’t let us decide … as Davina says “I” can relate .. I switch off now when some people are talking to me – making suggestions .. because they have no idea of where I’m at or where I’m going .. it is very interesting – they can’t seem to grasp the other side and its concepts, or accept that actually I know what I’m talking about and what’s happening … I’ve learnt to stay polite – but I can vent here!!!

.. if I’m with someone I consider narcissistic – then I know in advance .. I don’t take it on board .. I’ll take note .. but no more: my vent is sealed here – probably a good thing .. no mixing at all.

Just glad you’re not dependent – but are independent .. have a good week, with thoughts and a hug .. Hilary

By: Lori Hoeck

Lori Hoeck — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 01:42:58 +0000

Hi Joyce,
My mother always used to tell us kids, “Never judge someone until you walk a mile in their moccasins,” but sometimes we never really can.

Hi Davina,
Listening and using “I” statements are skills I wish everyone knew.

Thank you for the Happy 4th. It was an emotional weekend on so many levels.

By: Davina

Davina — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 00:45:11 +0000

“You sound so innocent, all full of good intent; Swear you know best; You got the talking down, just not the listening…” — I can relate. Love the connection you’ve made with this and Independence Day, Lori. Happy 4th to you.

By: Joyce at What Would You Do In Heaven?

Joyce at What Would You Do In Heaven? — Mon, 05 Jul 2010 02:47:30 +0000

There are people who judge others so easily as though they knew how to be where they are, but they don’t. No, they couldn’t step inside their shoes even for a single day.