Comments on: Are you ready to free yourself from narcissists?

By: Lori Hoeck

Lori Hoeck — Fri, 14 May 2010 20:40:25 +0000

Hi Susan,
Not sure what has happened but all downloads seem to be going fine. You may want to try again with another email account. Thanks.

By: susan knight

susan knight — Thu, 13 May 2010 20:09:10 +0000

Hi, I tried to get your ebook but the file was damaged. Can I still get it? Thanks

By: Lori Hoeck

Lori Hoeck — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 01:55:36 +0000

Hi Hilary,
Thank you for downloading the ebook. I’m sure you will find it eye-opening! The reviewers have been kind, as have you.

By: Hilary

Hilary — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 08:05:00 +0000

Hi Lori and Betsy .. just asked for the download – so I’m sure it’ll be here shortly. It sounds as though the book is relevant for all of us – as we can learn so much how to approach people in general and obviously with the added aspects of dealing with narcistic and difficult people. Thanks – I shall ‘enjoy’ reading it and I’m sure learn from it .. I can see a few reviews around – so those will give us extra insights. Well done for a)the book and for coming through your challenges and being at this point – it must make life feel easier .. great to be with you – Hilary

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Wed, 03 Feb 2010 04:15:07 +0000

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By: Lori Hoeck

Lori Hoeck — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 14:22:55 +0000

Hi Betsy,
Thank you for your positive response when I first mentioned collaboration to you and for the roller coaster ride since! It’s been healing, empowering, and inspirational. Yes, who knew from the pain of the past, we could so help so many others?

Hi Cyndi,
Thank you for your feedback and support.

What you say of SV is true. But, it was his writings that helped me finally leave my narcissists, so the symmetry of using one narcissist against another makes a certain ironic sense to me. Plus, I don’t want to let a narcissist control me “in reverse” either.

By: Cyndi

Cyndi — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 12:53:42 +0000

I downloaded the book and it is excellent and so well put together too.

The information contained in it is excellent and I appreciate your providing it free of charge. I hope it helps a lot of people.

I have to admit I was surprised to see multiple links back to Sam Vak nin. He is a controversial source, being a narcissist himself. When I first found him I got sucked in, just as he intends. What I have discovered is that he is really just creating more and more “followers” to buy his book with all that he posts online and every link back to him provides him with narcissistic supply in the form of attention, page rank, and book sales.

By: Betsy Wuebker

Betsy Wuebker — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 11:27:04 +0000

Hi Lori – It has been an honor and a great pleasure working on this project with you. I never imagined that so many good things could come out of such a difficult situation, but they have. It is so heartening to realize that others can benefit from what we’ve learned. But even more heartening is the number of people who have shared that the e-book has helped them gain understanding and take action towards a healthier, happier path through life. Thank you, my friend.