“I wished I had this
information years ago.”
Easily a dozen people who’ve already taken a sneak peek at The Narcissist: A User’s Guide have said those words to my co-author Betsy Wuebker of Passing Thru and me.
I’ve said them myself. So has my husband.
- Who wouldn’t want a guide to steer them away from a nasty, drama-filled relationship?
- Who wouldn’t want to know why certain relationships are so maddening and draining?
- Who wouldn’t want to thwart others from verbally and emotionally bullying, belittling, and brow-beating them?
Betsy and I have endured our respective narcissists and survived to tell and write about it. Now we offer our hard-won, passionate, and “rueful” wisdom, as Betsy calls it, for free as an ebook.
You can learn more information here or jump right to the download page.
Here are what what two others online writers say about The Narcissist: A User’s Guide:
I read The Narcissist: A User’s Guide. I started it and I couldn’t put it down… At 29 pages long, it is a crash course in narcissism, but it touches on everything someone about to make the jump to emotional freedom would want to know…The value of the advice given is that it is aimed at making a positive change in you, rather than dwelling on the person with the disorder. It is taking control of what can be changed and accepting what cannot.
“OAD”
One Angry Daughter
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If you’re dealing with a narcissist right now, this ebook is a must. It will show you that you are not alone, that you are NOT crazy, and that there ARE ways to cope with the narcissist in your life – including leaving them, and learning to avoid entering into a new codependent relationship in the future…I’ve read many self development books and ebooks, and this is by far one of the most empowering guides I have ever come across. Highly recommended!
Vered DeLeeuw
Momgrind.com
You owe it to yourself and your children to arm yourself with this potent version of narcissists’ Kryptonite! You can learn more information here or jump right to the download page.
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Hi Lori – It has been an honor and a great pleasure working on this project with you. I never imagined that so many good things could come out of such a difficult situation, but they have. It is so heartening to realize that others can benefit from what we’ve learned. But even more heartening is the number of people who have shared that the e-book has helped them gain understanding and take action towards a healthier, happier path through life. Thank you, my friend.
I downloaded the book and it is excellent and so well put together too.
The information contained in it is excellent and I appreciate your providing it free of charge. I hope it helps a lot of people.
I have to admit I was surprised to see multiple links back to Sam Vak nin. He is a controversial source, being a narcissist himself. When I first found him I got sucked in, just as he intends. What I have discovered is that he is really just creating more and more “followers” to buy his book with all that he posts online and every link back to him provides him with narcissistic supply in the form of attention, page rank, and book sales.
Hi Betsy,
Thank you for your positive response when I first mentioned collaboration to you and for the roller coaster ride since! It’s been healing, empowering, and inspirational. Yes, who knew from the pain of the past, we could so help so many others?
Hi Cyndi,
Thank you for your feedback and support.
What you say of SV is true. But, it was his writings that helped me finally leave my narcissists, so the symmetry of using one narcissist against another makes a certain ironic sense to me. Plus, I don’t want to let a narcissist control me “in reverse” either.
Hi Lori and Betsy .. just asked for the download – so I’m sure it’ll be here shortly. It sounds as though the book is relevant for all of us – as we can learn so much how to approach people in general and obviously with the added aspects of dealing with narcistic and difficult people. Thanks – I shall ‘enjoy’ reading it and I’m sure learn from it .. I can see a few reviews around – so those will give us extra insights. Well done for a)the book and for coming through your challenges and being at this point – it must make life feel easier .. great to be with you – Hilary
Hi Hilary,
Thank you for downloading the ebook. I’m sure you will find it eye-opening! The reviewers have been kind, as have you.
Hi, I tried to get your ebook but the file was damaged. Can I still get it? Thanks
Hi Susan,
Not sure what has happened but all downloads seem to be going fine. You may want to try again with another email account. Thanks.